Victim blaming

This has been the traffic’s bread and butter.  While the bread and butter for the families abuse has been gas lighting, the traffic’s bread and butter has been victim blaming.

You do it all the time.  I am tired of writing but I am sure someone will explain to me again that it is my fault that you have to treat me so badly.  They will tell me all about how their actions are my responsibility.

Why do they feel this way?  My money is on a lack of employment but going back and looking at it, they contributed greatly to my inability to recover a life from the shambles I made at my first attempt.